single and waiting

Life in the single lane, is something most people experience at some point in their life. This is just my personal experience, that I thought I'd share with you all. Isaiah 40:31 "Those who wait for the Lord will gain new strength. They will mount up with wings like eagles. They will run and not get tired, they will walk and not become weak"

Monday, August 28, 2006

Is it better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all?

hey all you bloggers out there!!

Is it better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all?

Good question right? Lets weigh up both sides of the argument. What is love? To love someone is to be there for them, care for them, have someone to hold, support and shower with kisses and hugs. Someone who you can turn to always, who will never judge you, who will tell you when you’re wrong and will comfort you when you fail. Someone who will encourage you when others bring you down, someone who will always have your back.

I think anyway…and so the list continues. Someone who has never loved will never know what they’ve lost now will they? So they will relieve themselves of any pain that love can cause.

The pain of loving and losing. Words cannot describe, the stings will cling to your heart for a long time. It truly does pierce the heart. You feel like you are drowning in your tears, and your thoughts are flying all over the place. You feel like you’re being suffocated by your emotions, like what is there to live for? Are all men (or women) going to treat me this way?

peace

girl in the single lane

posted by single and waiting @ 1:54 AM  

3 Comments:

  • At 12:59 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    It is without a doubt better to have loved and lost!

    Afterall, We are defined not by our appearance, out background or our wealth but by our experiences and actions.

    Please don't think you'll always be treated like this - it might feel like it but it's not the case. Just don't let it impact your generous and kind nature. If you really are in search for the perfect man for yourself, this is what will attract him above all else.

    Believe in yourself :)

    Dave

     

  • At 3:53 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Well, yes. But love is a two-way street. It's certainly better to have been loved than never to have been loved at all.

     

  • At 12:56 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I think its better to have never loved at all cos if you lose someone you truly love it hurts more than you could ever imagine. Yeah you'll have some great memories of being with that person and perhaps spent a long amount of time with them but nothing can describe the pain you feel when they're gone. Its better to love and not lose!

     

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