falling in love with your best friend
how are we all this fine day? I've been doing a lot of thinking lately about my prince charming. I was reminded about the book of Songs of Solomon, and read it this week...what a book.
It was brought to my attention, through watching films and stuff...that you and your prince charming should be really good friends before anything develops. It is so important that you can be friends. perhaps for longer than you wanted to...but being friends is important. It allows you to see them differently, see a different side to them..which is a good thing. A friendship is a strong bond that will struggle to be broken, and makes for a promising future. I got this little story in an email today, and thought it was sweet.
Girl: I'm always here for you
Boy: I know
Girl: What's wrong?
Boy: I like her so much
Girl: Talk to her
Boy: I don't know. She won't ever like me
Girl: Don't say that. You're amazing.
Boy: I just want her to know how I feel.
Girl: Then tell her.
Boy: She won't like me
Girl: How do you know that?
Boy: I can just tell
Girl: Well just tell her.
Boy: What should I say
Girl: Tell her how much you like her
Boy: I tell her that daily
Girl: what do you mean?
Boy: I'm always with her. I love her.
Girl: I know how you feel. I have the same problem. But he'll never like me
Boy: Wait. Who do you like?
Girl: Oh some boy
Boy: Oh... she won't like me either.
Girl: She does
Boy: How do you know..
Girl: Because, who wouldn't like you?
Boy: You
Girl: You're wrong, I love you.
Boy: I love you too.
Girl: So are you going to talk to her?
Boy: I just did.
Aww...aint that cute!? It would be nice if this was reality, but the truth is...I don't know what will happen when my prince finds me. But I do know that it will be magical...it will give me thousands of butterflies...and will be a day I never forget....
What do you think?
peace
girl in the single lane
2 Comments:
At 2:13 AM, Anonymous said…
I agree its so important to be friends with the guy first. It reminds me of ppl who kiss other ppl when they don't even know them but dont even get me started on that! All this casual dating - my brother is dating a girl he only just met a few weeks ago. I just dont get it. How can you know someone well enough to have a relationship with them when you haven't even got to know them first? You need to earn each other's trust, know what makes each other happy or sad, know when to draw the line, say anything in front of them without worrying if you sound stupid, accept each others flaws and treasure the strengths... You just need to know exactly what it is about them that makes you want to be with them and you cant have that if you start a relationship without being friends first. End of story, lol
At 4:53 PM, Portrait of Peter said…
How sweet - to form a love that is to be everlasting is indeed to be formed from becoming "Best Friend".
For as you both learn of each other so does the love that will develop inside you both. Learning of respect in each other, sharing and caring for each other and importantly trusting and being there for each other - are the foundations that will built a castle - that no one can ever destroy.
For Love is indeed your "Best Friend".
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